Why Arguments Repeat

Surface-level conflicts mask deeper emotional needs. Learn to identify the hidden patterns beneath every disagreement.

The F.E.R.N.S. Framework

Discover the proven method for uncovering Feelings, Expectations, Reactivity, Needs, and Sensitivities that drive behavior.

Transform Your Relationship

Move from reactive arguments to conscious communication that addresses what's really happening beneath the surface.

Stop Fighting About the Dishes (It Was Never About the Dishes)

The dishes. The laundry. How you load the dishwasher. These aren't your real problems—they're symptoms of something deeper. Discover why your arguments keep repeating and learn the proven framework therapists use to uncover the hidden emotions and unmet needs driving every conflict in your relationship.

What you'll learn

Decode the Hidden Messages in Your Arguments Stop fighting about dishes, money, or schedules and start understanding the real emotional needs driving the conflict. You'll learn to recognize when surface-level topics are masking deeper fears and unmet needs.

Identify Your Relationship's Repetitive Patterns Discover why the same arguments keep resurfacing in different forms. Learn to spot the cycle before it starts and understand what your recurring conflicts are really trying to tell you.

Navigate the Five Layers of the Emotional Iceberg Master the F.E.R.N.S. Method to uncover what's truly happening beneath every disagreement:

Apply Real-World Tools Immediately Walk away with specific questions and frameworks you can use the moment conflict arises. These aren't theoretical concepts—they're proven strategies from years of couples therapy practice.

Meet the speaker

Brian T. Jones, PMHC, CCTP-II, LMHC

Relationship Coach, Creator of F.E.R.N.S Method

Brian T. Jones, LMHC, CCTP believes most relationship conflicts aren't actually about what couples think they're fighting about. As founder of BME Therapy Associates, he developed the F.E.R.N.S. Method to help couples decode the hidden emotions beneath their arguments and create genuine connection.

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